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Blog EntryFeb 26, '09 1:35 AM
for everyone
I’m off to the Makati City Hall tomorrow, Friday, for our One Life to Live Campaign there. I’ll be speaking on the topic Learn.

Pastor Bernard shared an inspiring word last Tuesday. It’s great to hear his personal testimony about the things he has learned when he was young. He even shared the wrong things he got involved in and I kept on giving Dane, Pastor B’s youngest daughter, a sign to cup her ears so she won’t lose respect on her dad (he..he..). Pastor Bernard ended by encouraging everyone to learn from Jesus by using a very simple guide whenever we’re reading the bible:

A ttitude to change

S in to forsake

P romise to claim

E xample to follow

C ommand to obey

T ruth to apply

At the Makati City Hall campaign I’ll be using a sponge as an object lesson to drive home the point. I’ll explain how our brain is like a sponge that imbibes information. A brand new sponge like a baby’s brain can imbibe more than a used one (that’s why learning is harder for older people because previously learned things are retained in the sponge making absorption limited). I’ll dip it in clear water to represent the good things we learn from our parents, other family members, teachers friends, etc. and drain it into a fish bowl representing our lives. I’ll also dip it in water with betadine which represents the wrong things we learn. As I drain it in the same fish bowl, I’ll explain how one sin greatly affects the entirety of our lives. Then I’ll talk about Jesus when He said;

…  “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:31-32

It’s interesting that in the bible people also refer to Jesus as the “good teacher.” More interesting though is to note that Jesus didn’t just claim to know the truth but declared that He is the truth Himself (John 14:6).

If we learn from Him by taking Him in our lives he can set us free from a “dirty” life to a life that “counts.” (While explaining this, I’ll pour the solution that makes the water with betadine in the fish bowl clear again.)

Please pray for me and the small group leaders as well. Pray also for the people in the Makati City Hall to have an encounter with God.

Blog EntryFeb 19, '09 5:09 AM
for everyone
A lot of things have been said about love and the internet is swarmed with love quotes. Everyone has an opinion about the matter.  I am no expert but here are my personal quotes  (promise these are not cheesy):

To love is to take risks and to open up one’s self to possible pain.

Getting in a relationship with someone you don’t fully know is risky. The friendship stage gives you a peek in another’s soul but somehow that is still not enough. I know of good friends who took their relationship to the next stage and it fell apart. They’re better off as friends and that’s it. I would agree though that the best way to start is this route.

Now pain. Love has its own highs and lows and pain is inevitable. After all you’re in a relationship with another human being –who, just like you, commits mistakes. But there’s another side of pain in love –the pain of having to sacrifice. I would say that this is the real measure of the depth of one’s love.

The greatest expression of love is to connect someone to the source of love Himself.

For some reason the love you give and the love you receive never fully satisfies. We all need a love that’s greater than ours -the kind of love that surpasses even our ‘impossible’ expectations.
We could give the most expensive gift, spend 24/7 with someone but unless we connect them to God they will always want some more.

2000 years ago the crowd gathered to watch this man hang on the cross. “He saved others, let him save himself…” they said because no one understood what He’s doing.

1John 3:16 This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us…

He died so we could live. Why? Because He loves you and me.

Love is risky, it’s painful at times and it can only be found in it’s fullness in Christ.

You may also want to check this blog from last Tuesday.


Blog EntryFeb 10, '09 8:47 AM
for everyone
We finally started our campaign last night. A lot of people came from all walks of life. We even had balikbayans on vacation who attended. The Assembly Hall was packed with excited people.

I spoke about how passion for adventure is trapped in the daily grind of what constitutes a thing we now call -life. We are alive but not living. Somehow we remain as potentials where the lion never growls.

I ended by talking about the connection of passion with purpose and how fulfillment in life which is the expression of passion can only be achieved by living according to His purposes.

Pastor Dennis Isleta and Pastor Bernard did a great job hosting. Pastor B was his usual funny self. Mae Perez our Worship Services head helped orienting our facilitators. Marge Pateña, one of our staff made the powerpoint. Pastor Miko Tangco and Gabby Vargas were big helping hands as well. It feels good to be a part of a great team making the campaign great.

If you’re a facilitator, Great job! Thank you.

 


Blog EntryFeb 9, '09 11:24 AM
for everyone

“Realize that today is your someday.”


Those are pretty big words – the kind that you may not like but don’t have any choice but to agree with. Well that’s probably the God moment when He’s speaking to you.

 

So here goes my starting today I will…

Exercise regularly. I used to- back in college days when I had biceps and triceps. Now I have work and kids and a wife and household chores and books to read and unending excuses why I can’t. Well today is the day of reckoning – yes I will exercise. Now where’s the alaxan?

 


Learn to play tennis. This has been my long time dream sport since high school days. I actually finished 8 lessons out of 12 then stopped because of a ‘full schedule.’ The closest I got to was playing badminton instead but it’s not even close except for the rackets. -Yes I will first condition my physique so I won’t gasp like a tired dog when I actually start.


Regularly date my wife and kids – separately of course. I used to regularly date Karen without the kids to movies and dinner, Raine without mom and kuya to malling and dinner (she loves shopping) and Gio without mom and little sister to timezone. –yes I’m a changed man!

 

End of the list for now. Hey I’m taking this slowly alright? It’s hard to commit and fail –much like this 30 day blogging. Did I make it for day 2?


Blog EntryFeb 8, '09 9:08 AM
for everyone
Today, we officially began our One Live To Live campaign starting with all our Sunday services all throughout Metro Manila.

I just got home from dinner with my family after preaching at the 1 and 3 pm services at the Fort practicing what I just preached -making every moment count. During the preaching I mentioned that people can actually read our blogs during this campaign so we can all inspire and encourage one another.

So how should I open this 30 day series of blogs? Well I guess there’s no better way but to start with thanksgiving. There’s so much to be grateful for but I sort of narrowed down my list to last year’s top 10. Here it goes:

Top 10 Popcorn, the newest family member. She’s an apricot toy poodle who’s really smart. She stays in her cage and doesn’t poo or pee all over the place (that would be the total bummer if she does). My kids love her. I love her because she seldom barks –talk about having a restful day after work –bark free.


Top 9 Aileen, she’s the last person I baptized in ’08 last December 30. She’s really serious in following God that she even fasted that day ‘til she received baptism. It was a privilege to be a part of her life.




Top 8 Pastor Robert and Joanne Gonzales. Ever since Pastor Robert Hern moved to Pioneer it was hard plodding with such  BIG shoes to fill but thank God for Pastor Robert and Joanne who carried the weight with me. It was an honor to work with them.




Top 7
my son Gio graduating from Prep at VCS.  Grabe may napa graduate na akong anak. He..he..




Top 6 my daughter Raine going to school. Time flies so fast. Karga ko lang dati now they’re studying na. Her favorite subject – Mandarin. Cool!





Top 5 family vacations. This was in Baguio. Nothing beats spending time with my family.




Top 4
Date with my wife on her birthday. I surprised her with a quiet dinner. With two young and eager kids who love to tag along, going out with just the two of us is a rarity. We had a great time. I thank God my kids agreed that they be left with the yaya.


Top 3 this is rather selfish but I asked God for a little rain on my birthday and the clouds turned dark and it drizzled a bit. Thank you Lord.




Top 2
last year was our 10th year wedding anniversary. We went to Bora to celebrate. God I love this woman.



Top 1 Karen. Need I say more? She’s my superwoman.


Blog EntryFeb 4, '09 4:04 AM
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Last night we ended our Tuesday One Life To Live Training. Pastor Bernard Marquez, our Pastoral Services head and Pastor Jeff Eliscupidez, one of our new pastors, were sure hits as the new Porkchop duo– Christian version (you decide who’s the Pork and who’s the Chop..he..he..). Grabe magpatawa. I wasn’t sure though if Pastor Jeff has real ABS-CBN exposure as he would ostentatiously claim or if that’s just an ad lib. They livened up the meeting while making important points as we all gear up for our upcoming campaign. Over 320 people attended the trainings and over 140 wanted to help as facilitators for discussions. The excitement is definitely in the air.

So what’s the training like? It was like cranking the timer of a bomb that is ready to set off an explosion that will affect the lives of our friends, families, co-workers, classmates, neighbors, etc. One Life To Live will surely be a blast - a constructive one of course.

We are all set and waiting for the big KABOOM!


Blog EntrySep 11, '08 3:12 AM
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I haven’t blogged for a long time but I really felt like last Sunday was so important that I have to somehow put it in writing somewhere just to chronicle what I believe would be an important turning point in my life and the lives of the people attending our 1 and 3 pm services. I preached last Sunday out of Deuteronomy 1:6-13 about breaking camp and advancing towards God’s promises and ended by saying that God intentionally puts leaders/mentors/disciplers/life coaches or whatever you may call them to help us thru the journey. Since I was preaching in our Tagalog service, I asked what’s the Filipino translation for advance and almost immediately someone shouted “bale” (as in boss pwede bang bumale?) and everyone broke out in laughter which is typical of the 1 and 3pm services. I ended by honoring our small group leaders who untiringly invests their time and efforts for the advancement of God’s kingdom. Maraming salamat sa inyong lahat. I then encouraged everyone to connect to these leaders. I heard a lot of good reports but there’s really no telling how many would end up surrounding themselves with good influences. To me the turning point is actually declaring that we are here to honor God and make disciples. We are serious about getting to know the God we serve and giving the glory due Him.
To all the leaders who stood with us either by prayers or by meeting with the people, thank you for building with us.
To all who are now plugged in small groups, may you find meaningful relationships as you grow together in Christ.
And to all of us, allow me to paraphrase the words of Moses; “you have stayed here long enough…it’s time to break camp and advance for greater heights await each one of us.” Sugod mga kapatid!


Blog EntryJun 29, '07 3:21 AM
for everyone
I watched the transformers last night with my wife and some friends and it was awesome. It’s like going back to that couch where I slump every Saturday mornings when I was still young. It’s back to Optimus Prime, the truck, minus the load he pulls which I remember when I was young we would argue on where it goes when he transforms and how it comes back. Then, Megatron, the evil nemesis. He doesn’t transform into a gun in this movie but he still sends that shiver that something bad is going to happen when he’s around.
It was just great. The kind where you come out of the movie house saying “sulit ang bayad.” I particularly liked the part where Starscream messes with the other jets while on air. Galing. It was so good I was waiting for my own car to transform when I got in the parking lot (he..he..that’s the kid in me).


On the side note though, (and maybe a tip for the next Steven Spielberg) after watching TMNT, fantastic four and this, I’m guessing that 20 years from now, our kids will be lining up for the Powerpuff girls, Kim Possible and Jimmy Neutron. It’s amazing how these moviemakers relate and connect to the once children and now a generation who can afford to watch a movie and pay out of their own salary. Kaya pati songs ni Bumblebee 80's. Business talaga.

Anyway, if you haven’t seen it yet, tomorrow is Saturday...roll out and remember; there’s more than meets the eye…

By the way, here are some of the other robots:
Autobots:
Bumblebee – he’s the black striped yellow camaro. I wonder where the old beetle go.
Ironhide -  the trigger happy GMC pickup truck
Ratchet – hummer H2
Jazz – Pontiac solstice

Decepticons:
Blackout – the seemingly invincible Sikorsky helicopter
Barricade – Mustang police car
Frenzy -  the spy boombox
Scorponok – scorpion
Starscream – the flying F-22 raptor with a big delusion of grandeur
Brawl – the M1 Abrams tank
Bone crusher -  sorry I can’t make out what he is


We’re on our way to Punta de Uian for our staff outing. The wild at hearts driving on a convoy. We have a fairly new driver Archie, Caloy in a rather slow van, Robert H. leading the pack and Dennis, Neil and me in between. We’re a long king cobra bullying the earthworms of the road. We’d overtake, cut and hassle. From time to time, a car would be in front of me and I would say, ‘step up or step out.’ When you’re on a highway and a fast car is behind you, it’s either you drive faster to stay in front or you move aside and let him pass. More like John Maxwell’s leadership’s law of the lid. You have to be ahead to be a leader and I tell you how encouraged I was to see everyone stay in line. The king cobra remained intact head to tail.  But nearing Punta de Uian, there was a road that could barely accommodate two vehicles. Actually, there is a bridge that is just for one. Opposite directions need to take turns. In times like this, you stay where you are. For your sake and for the sake of the body, you don’t overtake. You fall in line and follow the one in front. Now that’s some rich leadership lessons there.

Blog EntryJun 17, '07 10:13 PM
for everyone
My father left us when I was in elementary and I actually had a vague recollection of how it happened. We rarely saw our parents arguing that’s why I never really understood why he had to leave. No one discussed the issue. It’s everyone for himself. My brother took it the hardest rebelling and defying authorities. I grew apathetic. For as long as I’m doing what I’m supposed to do, I’m fine. When I was a student, I would excel because to me it’s a personal responsibility. I was actually doing great until my father stepped in. I was a consistent honor student from grade one to three and I remember my dad telling me that if I would be first honor in grade four, he would attend the pinning of medals and he’d do it himself. I was first honor and no dad to pin the medal. He said he’d do it in grade five. Still no dad. He said if I graduated valedictorian. Again, no dad. He said if I can do it in high school, he’ll be there. I topped the entrance examination of the biggest high school in our city, and became the model student among the first year but still no dad. He said if I would be the valedictorian in high school, he’ll finally come up the stage with me. I was tired believing. I gave up and laid low on my studies. I knew I could do better but why bother. I had enough of broken promises. I never topped the class again. From then on the only conversations I had with him was whenever I would get his sweldo and bring it home to my mom.

Fast forward to June 17, 2007. I’m now a father of two kids. Today is father’s day. I’ve always wondered if I’m a good dad myself. It’s hard to get to a destination when
the map you have consists of routes you don’t need to take. My son came up to me from the children’s church and with a clinched fist said, ‘dad, I have a gift to you.’ He opened it and gave me a marshmallow. The kind my kids love so much they’d ask me to buy them this whenever we’re in a grocery store. He probably got it as a give away but instead of eating it, he gave it to me. My daughter saw his kuya  and blurted ‘dad I have the best gift of all.’ With nothing in her hand, she grabbed my arm, pulled me down and gave me a kiss.
I never had a good father. No one really sat down with me and helped me out on this. The closest I got was from parenting seminars. But there is one thing that has carried me through. Psalms 68:5 A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling. I have a perfect father all along who’s helping me now to be a good father.

My father died 2 years ago. Being a doctor, he came to me in 2003 cancer stricken and dying. I helped him get the medical care he needed while in my heart praying that he come to know God. He was bedridden for several months when I gave him the book The Purpose Driven Life. Two weeks before he passed away, for the first time we prayed together. I was 35 years old holding the hand of my dying dad leading him to a prayer of acceptance. I never realized how much I loved him until that day. The ultimate Father healed our relationship and brought one home. I could never thank Him enough. A father to the fatherless…He’s my dad…He’s carrying me through…the same Dad to my own children.